Tuesday, June 28, 2011

What a man wants, what a man needs????

Do we as women really care??? Honestly, we say we want so much and need so much from men, but do we actually take in to consideration the wants and needs of our men???

What would a man says he really wants? What he really needs? Here's what I think a man wants:

SEX & FOOD, That's about it.....lol

What a man needs:

Support, Love, Understanding, Friendship, Comfort, God, Companionship, Authority, Goals, Sense of Fulfillment, Joy, to Cry, A wife, Kids.......

A woman that can stand by them to provide all the above, including the wants.

If you have a man in your life, be it husband, son, companion, father, simply ask them their wants and needs. We can't read their minds, nor should we try.

Why me? Why not??


Thursday, June 9, 2011

Why me??? Why not???

Am I in love or in desperate need of a companion???? I have been dating for a long time and I am just starting to wonder why I even bother. It is getting harder day by day to be with someone of the opposite sex that I find interesting...so what's the point???

Recently, someone I have known for years decided to tell me that he has been admiring for 3 years and decided that this was the year to ask me out. I was shocked and later upset that for 3 years he liked me and wanted to take our friendship to another level, and kept this to himself. I began to wonder where we would be if he would have spoken up 3 years ago. I guess I will never know.

Since his confession, we have spent a great deal of time together and I am beginning to understand just why I like dating. It lets me be me and explore the possibilities of spending time with someone that likes me and wants to know me better. By being friends with him for so long there hasn't been one awkward moment.

So if you have given up on dating....don't!!! Hang in there!!! I am having the best time ever.

Why me?? Why not??